Dominant energy
 
I am sure at one time or the other all of us have heard of the law of attraction,setting intention and how our energy either positive or negative attract the experiences we have. I believe things don't just happen, they happen for a reason and often they are rich lessons to be learnt from our experiences, a chance for transformation to occur. Looking back ,it is the most difficult  and painful experiences that brought about the greatest transformation in my life.

As i had mentioned earlier every person has a dominant energy signature.By this i mean that energy which dominates your being,you emit this energy on to the environment.You walk around attracting people and experiences because of this energy. It is like  when you perfume yourself and the scent lingers everywhere around you.Other people can smell it too,strangers anyone who comes close to you.Our energy behaves in the same way,it will attract or repel the already existing energy in people and surrounding environment.

How does a particular energy become dominant in our being and end up affecting how we live. When children are born they are born pure,no negative or positive energy ,however as they grow older the energy changes.It starts with the family or those closest to the child for example if the child is in an environment where he suffers constant physical or emotional abuse.It could be an environment where they may not get abused but see others get abused for example where a father insults the mother. As the children grow older in an abusive environment they may develop fear,insecurity or hatred.coupled with  other experiences they go through they store the energy of fear and anger inside.It may stay inside of them in a dormant state for a long time, they may be able to let it go or not. This energy then rules their lives for a long time

Mostly we think of energy as either negative or positive,however what is dominant in us is neither of the two.For example anger,sense of abandonment,some people feel they are inherently bad,others feel like outsiders,others feel they are not good enough,some people feel they are different,special,know it all, others hold a holier than thou attitude,others feel they are better than everyone else.This translates into a certain thought pattern. If the dominant energy is feeling like a failure ,whenever you undertake any endevour you are afraid you will fail.You are not only afraid ,the sense that you are a failure and will most likely fail dominates your thoughts.

How do you know what your dominant energy is? Closely analyze the experiences you have had so far in life.Those that left you feeling good and those that left you feeling unpleasant.Your thought pattern can also be a strong indicator.Watch and note the thoughts that repeatedly go through your head more so when you are going through something unpleasant or attempting something new. Most important step is recognizing the thought pattern which sometimes is like a tape recorder at the back of the mind.Admitting to ourselves that we are like so takes a lot of inner strength. It is the first step to healing the wounds that need healing deep within. Only then can we even begin to comprehend and understand why we attract certain people and experiences. Only then will our behavior pattern and peoples reactions towards us start to make sense.